about this problem, further investigation:
2021-03-25 20:49:59.086661 7fb0d1eae700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 0.260263 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160270 (3223'158690,3231'160270] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160260 lua=3231'160269 crt=3231'160270 lcod 3231'160259 mlcod 3231'160259 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:04.620595 7fb0cdea6700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 5.794196 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160271 (3223'158690,3231'160271] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160270 lua=3231'160270 crt=3231'160271 lcod 3231'160269 mlcod 3231'160269 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:09.972641 7fb0cdea6700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 11.146243 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160272 (3223'158690,3231'160272] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160271 lua=3231'160271 crt=3231'160272 lcod 3231'160270 mlcod 3231'160270 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:13.642743 7fb0d1eae700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 14.816344 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160279 (3223'158690,3231'160279] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160272 lua=3231'160272 crt=3231'160279 lcod 3231'160271 mlcod 3231'160271 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:19.498725 7fb0d1eae700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 20.672327 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160289 (3223'158690,3231'160289] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160279 lua=3231'160288 crt=3231'160289 lcod 3231'160278 mlcod 3231'160278 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:23.099160 7fb0cdea6700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 24.272762 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160290 (3223'158690,3231'160290] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160289 lua=3231'160289 crt=3231'160290 lcod 3231'160288 mlcod 3231'160288 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:28.234479 7fb0d1eae700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 29.408081 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160291 (3223'158790,3231'160291] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160290 lua=3231'160290 crt=3231'160291 lcod 3231'160289 mlcod 3231'160289 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:31.540501 7fb0cdea6700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 32.714102 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160292 (3223'158790,3231'160292] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160291 lua=3231'160291 crt=3231'160292 lcod 3231'160290 mlcod 3231'160290 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:37.539869 7fb0d1eae700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 38.713471 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160302 (3223'158790,3231'160302] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160292 lua=3231'160301 crt=3231'160302 lcod 3231'160291 mlcod 3231'160291 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:42.315758 7fb0cdea6700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 43.489360 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160303 (3223'158790,3231'160303] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160302 lua=3231'160302 crt=3231'160303 lcod 3231'160301 mlcod 3231'160301 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:46.094504 7fb0cdea6700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 47.268106 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160304 (3223'158790,3231'160304] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 luod=3231'160303 lua=3231'160303 crt=3231'160304 lcod 3231'160302 mlcod 3231'160302 active+clean]
2021-03-25 20:50:49.728532 7fb0cdea6700 10 osd.4 3231 dequeue_op 0x55f9daf4bf80 prio 63 cost 393216 latency 50.902133 osd_op(client.11232505.0:31443 10.ff 10:ffb56c0b:::rbd_data.15d6a971c9f3e4.00000000000002a2:head [stat,write 3801088~393216] snapc 0=[] ondisk+write+known_if_redirected e3231) v8 pg pg[10.ff( v 3231'160304 (3223'158790,3231'160304] local-lis/les=3228/3229 n=1187 ec=105/46 lis/c 3228/3228 les/c/f 3229/3231/0 3228/3228/3228) [4,8,1] r=0 lpr=3228 crt=3231'160304 lcod 3231'160303 mlcod 3231'160303 active+clean]